We are born curious. Over time, we learn the value of “answers”. If answers become more valuable than questions and the inquisitive thought that leads us to asking questions, we may forget how to ask questions.
Why is this important? We now live in a world of information. Information comes to us from more sources than ever before. Technology has expanded the reach of information. Expanding perspectives and exploring differing views are important aspects of running a successful business / having a fulfilling career and life.
Promoting and practicing curiosity seeks new information and displays a genuine interest of how things work to achieve new practices, new learning, of new solutions and of overcoming anxiety. It opens us up to growth, expansion and possibility. Practice curiosity in the following ways and experience benefits in your life.
1. Clear purpose
Identify and communicate the “why” of any organization, group or family. Encourage involvement and support participation in alignment with the why. When people know they are a part of something bigger than them, amazing things can be the result.
2. Encourage active listening and active questioning
Do we listen to prepare our response or listen to gain understanding? How do we know the difference? A well-organized meeting is a meeting with a clear understanding of the desired outcome. Encouraging active listening and questioning allows people to collaborate, listen and question to explore options without blame.
3. Question major assumptions
We are creatures of habit. Why do we think what we think? Discovery stems from questioning assumptions – of opening ourselves up to reviewing the impact of what we do over a specified period of time. If we continue “X”, what do we anticipate? Creating a practice of assessment of results tied to the impact of assumptions on a regular basis incorporates theory into practice.
4. Explore complexity
Amidst complex times, often people and teams enter into situations where there are no clear predefined answers and solutions. We can get stuck, overwhelmed and feel as if we are running in circles. A healthy dose of curiosity can help people explore, get outside the ordinary routine, and learn new ways of looking at things to find new ways of working.
5. Curb anxiety
People with the greatest fear of the unknown – those who suffer from a ‘hyper-avoidance’ of distress – tend to be the least open, or curious. But cultivating a curious attitude can help to curb our general anxieties.
The mind that focuses on the problem is not the mind that seeks solutions. Curiosity helps us approach uncertainty in our everyday lives with a positive attitude.
If you are curious about exploring the unknown about contingency planning at home and work and why this may be of benefit, I invite you to contact The Living Planner. We proactively help you assess your situation in business and home and explore ways for you to protect what is important to you by asking questions. What is your risk? Your plan? Are you ready to be ready?
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